Anonymous: how did the "date" go?
Really well, actually. It was a fun night. I think it got better after he realized it wasn’t a date. But even then when we were saying bye he was just standing at my car door waiting an eternity for something to happen and texted me after in a kind of flirtatious way, so I stopped answering. I made sure to refer to him as my “friend” all night.
Anonymous: you should call the guy buddy and maybe talk about other guys. and keep your distance and don't be too touchy
I call everyone buddy so that’s easy. We bonded over heartbreak so I can definitely talk about that guy. I’ll try not to be touchy but I’m really playful and it might accidentally happen.. but awesome, thanks!